Independence

Parenting by the Word of God

As a parent, how much independence should you allow your child? 

First, recognize that an adolescent's desire for privacy does not always spell trouble.  It is a normal part of growth.  Privacy help adolescents test their wings as they develop their own friendships and think through their problems using the power of reason.  Let's look at Proverb 15:28.  It says, "The heart of the righteous studies how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours forth evil."

Second, realize that attempts to micromanage your adolescent's life may lead to resentment and rebellion.  Parents read Ephesian 6:4.  "And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord."

Third, if there is a matter to discuss with your adolescent, listen to his or her concerns.  Share with your adolescent that you will allow him or her a measure of privacy as long as your trust is not betrayed. 

Remember parents, Proverbs 22:6 says, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.

Train Up A Child

Dawn Taylor ღ

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