As we grow older we can see just how confidence can define us in everything we do, but as children we learn confidence by praise and encouragement from our parents.
We face challenges with the confidence we see our parents using...
As a child I grew up watching my mother display confidence as a single mother of three with no one to truly appreciate the sacrifice involved.. I watched her struggle in many ways financially, mentally and physically. She was my hero in a lot of ways... Unfortunately the confidence I learned from her was confidence of the Flesh. She depended solely on herself to provide for her children and herself and fell victim to wordily ways.. As a single mother I have followed my mothers footsteps inch by inch for as long as I can remember until recently when I discovered a confidence that works. My confidence in Jesus Christ!
My entire life I found confidence in my flesh following what it craved or what it wanted to do in all circumstances..
Discovering confidence in Christ was the key to all success even when there was no personal gain... To know God and to trust in Him always will lead you away from the life that you feel is pulling you down the wrong path..
As parents we sometimes forget how easy we influence our children in many situations. They become confident at birth as they reach for their mothers fingers during a feeding, feeling confident in the love that is growing between the two that confidence builds trust..
As we lead our children in life situations we should always be exampling a trust in God a trust in scripture to find answers in life..
If we allow ourselves to rely always on God even in the hardest of times our children will see joy where there was once worry, they will see laughter where there was once tears, they will witness love where there was once anger.. The more we lead by spending time in the word reading, studying and praying with our children they will grow to see a relationship with God. A relationship that will be like no other. But one that can be copied with every person they will meet throughout their lives.. If we display anger with sin they learn easily how to implement the wrong confidence to their everyday situations. There is a confidence in Christ we fail to show to our children and it is time we allow them to witness us fall to our knees asking God to lead us through the anger and find discernment and confidence through the situations. At least then we have come to a point where the Spirit will manifest in all we do and everyone in our lives... Not only will their confidence be influenced in prayer but as they hear us worshiping and praising Him always with song and thanksgiving they will begin to imitate what is good in our lives and what know the relationship God has called us to have.
As a single mother life is challenging. I am confident in saying for all of us the parent role are very different for we all have our individual challenges being parents. What I pray we begin to focus more on is growing in the spirit and building a love relationship with Jesus Christ and finding confidence in God always as we begin letting go of the flesh ideas of living and lead with confidence in our childrens lives...
God Bless you
I love you
Kristie
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Ephesians 6:1
Children, obey your
parents in the Lord: for this is right.
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We Are Humbled Brothers & Passionate Sisters in Christ
Children, obey your
parents in the Lord: for this is right.
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We Are Humbled Brothers & Passionate Sisters in Christ